After you had profile on senior dating sites, what's next?Posted by seniordatingsites.org |
After you created your account on some senior dating platforms, you might want to know what you should do and how? If you are unfamiliar with online dating, you should check this article and follow the steps. If you know the process well, please read other tips for senior singles.
1. Browse the profiles you interested. Most online daters firstly check the photos of potential matches, yes, the photos are very important to everyone. But don't judge by several photos. Judging based on looks is a shallow thing to do, it is always better to know the person on the inside. Read the profile details carefully.
2. Search by your own criteria. Use the search tools to search the people you want to meet. You can set the distance within 100 miles, see profiles only with photos, the age range close to your own age. Almost all dating sites provide quick and advanced search tools. What you need to do is setting your own criteria for searching.
3. Send winks or emails to the matches you interested. After several times searches, you may find some potential matches you like to chat. Don't be shy, just click the buttons and send your message to the person! Write an honest email, don't copy and paste a form letter. And also be respectful in your email. Yes, you make the first move now.
4. When emailing others, ask questions to determine what the other person is expecting. In other words, make sure the person you are speaking to is looking for a serious relationship and not just after your citizenship.
5. Online dating safety. Be careful if your match seems too good to be true. There are many romance scammers looking for their victims online. Please remember that don't give your personal email address in the first email. Use the webmail of that dating platform, since the platform especially the paid services screen all the members and will kick out the fake members in time. Never, EVER provide financial or banking information to anyone! Don't send money to anyone you don't know.
6. Meet your matches offline. Most people would agree that we tend to "hide behind" our computers out of fear of rejection. But don't be shy, just make sure the people you will meet is the one you like. And then go. Before you meet your match, you should have a plan on first date. SeniorMatch offers a lot of first date ideas, you should check out and find some good ideas for your first date.
7. Connection after the first date. After you meeting someone offline. You may have the first impressions on the people you just met. After going home, you should give a call, send one email or text allow yourself to express your interest in the person but don't go over the top, lest you scare your date. Leave it a day or two before requesting to see the other person so as to maintain the image of being cool, calm and collected.